The main idea behind this "art of pick-up" is that you have to be as insulting as possible to attract women's attention. There are some people who are making pretty good money by peddling this theory to desperate idiots who haven't been laid in years and don't have a chance to be noticed by anybody with half a brain. When I read some of the techniques they offer, I realized that quite a few of them have been used on me. My only response to this kind of behavior has always been, of course, a total rejection of a jerk who would try to approach me in that way.
Here are some examples from one of the sites:
KINO OPENERS (TylerDurden) Pushing girls, grabbing drinks out of their hands, lightly hip checking them, snapping bra straps, grabbing hats off heads, poke her, tap the opposite shoulder, etc…(these require no memorization are easy for newbies)
PRIMP OPENER (Harmless) First, here is the frame you're using for this opener:
"You're CUTE... but I'm going to make you a ROCKSTAR!"
This is, in fact, the exact wording I used to open Schematic's HB9 on Saturday night. I opened her and I let him take over and #close her. (He should have gotten more. Bad schematic. Oh well, I'll call her later. Maybe)
You don't even need to say anything to open, so this works in the loudest clubs.
You walk up, of course making sure to keep your BL under control. (Shoulders away, etc.) You check her out then make a face like you aren't happy with what you see. Then you hold your hands out like you're judging her style. You move in SLOWLY, pick some article of clothing (hat, shirt, etc. Best if it's upper body or head) and PRIMP it. Take her hat and TWIST it ever so slightly. Now, back away, lean back, look her over, and give her a thumbs up.
"NOW you're a SUPERSTAR!"
Continue with push/pull if you wish... "But wait..." and twist the hat back the other way. If she touches her hat, bust her for messing it up.
Tell her she's allowed to be seen with you now, and promenade her around the club.
COMPLIMENT OPENER Compliment her on something she’s wearing or her hair or just style in general. The trick is compliment openers are to never compliment her on her physical beauty.
You have an incredibly energy about you You have an artless grace That’s an incredible whatever-x accessory/garment
There is also a technique called "negging." It's a putdown that is supposed to make a beautiful woman feel so insecure about her looks that she will consider dating you. It's from this site:
Your hair looks shiny, is it a wig? Oh well it looks nice anyway
That’s lovely long hair – are they extensions?
I think your hair would look better up/down
Nice nails – are they acrylic. Oh, well they look good anyway.
Awww, how cute, your nose wiggles when you laugh – look there it goes again !!!
Is that your natural hair colour
You have U shaped teeth.
Well at least you have a nice body
Eww your palms are sweaty
Where is your off button
Were you a dork at school or something
Your kinda cute, like my little sister
Did you parents not give you enough attention as a child ?
How short are you?
You’re already back to square one with me
You need to get out more often...
I can see you work out…………occasionally
Wow, that’s a great tan….have you like not washed for a week or something he he
Wow, I reckon with a bit of training you could be a stripper or a pole dancer….how cool would that be
You remind me of my weird ex
Oh – you’re one of THOSE
You have a nice act but somewhere in there, is a little girl who just wants to be held and appreciated for who she is.
A suggestion for would-be-rapists from one of these idiotic sites:
Stop Asking For Permission. Can we dance? Can I have your number? Can I kiss you? Because guys don’t know what it’s like when someone asks for permission to escalate intimacy, they don’t realize how lame it is for them to do so. Asking for permission introduces an awkward moment where the girl’s brain floods with reasons not to do what you are asking to. Plus you make it seem like you are scared of getting rejected, a quality not attractive to most women. Instead of asking, just do it and see what happens.
It's unbelievable that any man would be clueless enough to pay for seminars that offer this kind of suggestions.